Should I leave or let it continue...?

I am really sick of people on here putting down people that are asking serious questions. This is your marriage and your daughter that your talking about, there is no need to be rude to you. Clearly you are upset and I know exactly what your going through...are you sure your not married to my husband too lol ....seriously though I go through the exact same thing you are going through except I have too boys one will be 2 in a couple months and the other is 3, everytime my husband and I fight he threatens me with the same thing. So eventually we split up and I'll be honest at first it was extremely hard and then we started talking about everything that hurt me and everything that hurt him until we sorted things out. But I'm not saying that you should leave him. We stayed seperated for about 2 months and then I moved back in some cases it works but in other cases it could get worse and then your by yourself. So it is entirely up to you what you do but I would sit down and write him a letter or write a few things down and maybe even get a babysitter so that the 2 of you can talk things out. People have to realize it gets old at least for me its the same thing everyday . In my opinion I do everything except work but I only quit my job upon his request. But who does everything else you do. He needs to realize that you are what is holding your lives together. But I would definitly talk to him and see how it goes. Good luck hunny I hope everything goes the way you want.